When do you know?
Yaar pata hai zindagi mein ek baar toh hona hi chahiye ... pyar!, you get to appreciate such beautiful songs so much more :)Something that I had said while listenin to another love song on the radio... I guess every song becomes a love song when uve known love...
That brought me to a question I've had the pleasure of answering quite a few times, "How do you know when you're in love?"
I'm gonna be giving my answer and I want each one of you to try and add to the list, which I'll compile and add to the post in an update. So here goes:- When you feel proud of that person's achievements knowin that you had nuthin to do with them.
- When all you really want is to make them incredibly happy.
- When you don't even realize that you subconsciously care so much, it comes naturally.
- God forbid if something were to happen to the other person you go ballistic.
- When that's the face you wanna see first thing in the mornin, last thing before you go to bed.
- When you do things that u wouldn't have done a day ago and they seem almost the most obvious thing on earth to do.
- When you instinctively do things that you think the other person might appreciate, bas yunhi.
- When you want him to be the first person you tell everything to and you want to be the first person he tells every lil thing to.
- When you can always remember what the other person says, more often than not you replay it in your head over and over and smile to yourself.
- When his family, even his pets become important to you.
- When you get just a lil possessive.
- When you wanna shout from rooftops that you're in love with a wonderful person and its the best thing to have happened to you.
Oh and since we're talkin about love I might as well mention that OILY is out... I mean Of course I Love You by Durjoy and Maanvi. I'm gonna go buy it soon, pick up your copy soon too :)
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I wrote a list like this once,so here is my addendum :
http://desiduck.blogspot.com/2007/09/ode-to-true-love.html
Will check out the book right away!
1.You dont like eating chocolate alone anymore.
2. When you need to hold hands, not just while crossing roads :P
:)
and yaar that book is nto out on online stores **sigh**
DD did a good job :)
muah!
i dont think there is much i could add to your list.. youve put ething and very beautifully too..
You have compiled it nicely. What do I say now ?
You are so much engrossed in your thoughts ki Bas ek smile aa jati hai khaana khate-khate.
:-)
This was told to me by someone.
Cuckoo
i'm not sure if i can define love or confine it....its the one feeling i just can't describe..i don't think i'll ever know when i'm in love!
i wonder how a guy's list will be though.
maybe, they'll say, "when we can bunk playin CS to talk to you" :|
high hopes.
:|
LOl
U never will sudhro na...always know how make people smile and make sure it remains throughout :)
im not saying anything further hunny..
:D
lodsa love :-*
:)
lovd the post..!
*really
~gosh~
Another Beautifully created Materpeice...
Since sm1 up der said wat a guy's list wud look like
i think i hav a new blog post material in sight....
But till i do dat ..
Here 's a few beginner thght's
1) When d wind carressing her face seem's to make u jealous..
2) When even d sight of smthing remotely connected to her makes you remeber d time's you were alone wid hr and saying d exact same words in your mind even if d event happened ages ago...
3) Jab after talkin till d tym u hav ur balance and energy spent ...U think of calling her bac d next instant cz u start missin her so madly...as if u havnt been speakin for months nw...
4) Agar u get a miss call from her end and u reply wid a call which isn't picked u type d biggest apology letter on d SMS @ speed of light ...
5) The Smell of her perfume makes u go wild....Der isn't a smell just as intoxicating...nt even alcohol...
6) Smtymes whn u get mad @ her...Like once in a year or so...You end up buying her a present just to make her be happy as if u were @ fault end...
7) Whn nt talking to her seems d harhest and most painfull and uinbearable thing to ever happen...
8) If she smiles u smile by default,but u can nvr stand her to start crying...
9) Whn d care 4 her get's exponentially increasing every zillioth part of a second....
10) I knw it sounds Stupid,but talkin to her in d most childish tone ,cz she's always like a child to you,Makes u feel so so so wonderfully good dat u nvr think of neething whn u see a child smiling but her voice in your head....
Guess dis is a good enugh list ...
But i will add d more clearer detail's whn i make mine...
UnTill Later,
TkCr Shona...
:):)
Will compile the added points on 6th !
umm tough question, i would just say ki pata chal jaata hai... kyun yeh nahi pata chalta, kaise yeh nahi pata chalta but u are in love ...yeh pata chal jaata hai :)
awwww @#1 i totally fell in love with this one :)
:P
:)
but tune apni list toh batayi nahi ...
add something na sweetie
thank u
hehe ... i hope i do :)
hugs and kisses!!
agreed... this prolly is just a list of nice feelings :)
PS: will visit to read ur space soon
good point ...
thank u :)
:D and I always smile when I read your name :)
hehe, jisne bhi kaha accha kaha!
thanchew :)
oh u will ... you might not admit it but u will know
thanks!
hehe do i hear complaint?
high hopes for sure :P
hahaha u dont even want me to sudhro if it makes u smile :P :)
loadsa love right back at ya darlin
:-*
am glad u did :)
"and u forget all the grammar while ur typing and thinking about nothing but him..!!
*really"
accha?? we havent chatted in ages i suppose, for me to have noticed that! ;)
thank u :)
wow uve written loads of points, will surely compile and update on 6th
kaafi detailed list hai, but i liked this the most
"If she smiles u smile by default,but u can nvr stand her to start crying..." :)
aah wonderful addendums
"When all you want to do is keep looking at her while listening to her sweet lil voice.."
aww 'sweet lil voice' made me smile a lot :)
hey, main toh ekdum bhali changi tussi kiddan?
still caught up with work?
You are in love when
- your eyes unconciously keep searching for him or her at all places.
- time seems to fly in his or her company.
- you act and do silly things or laugh for no reason at all when both of you are together.
- you turn poetic or " shair ".
Well, these are few of things I can recall now.
Take care
heyy long time ...
very good point, is true from my experience :)
thank u so much :)
yep totally...
reminds me of Plato's words "At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet."
:)
lovely list!
i know when i m in love but i dont know why she isnt anymore.. interesting isnt!!
such is life!!!
Cheers!!
p.s. how were exams?
how and why people move?? well that i think calls for yet another post.
I dunno whether i read this or i heard this but it said people fall in and outta love all the time, hence people who get their heart broken once actually manage to find love again...
fairly interesting and happens to a lot many more ppl than u realize... such is life!!
:)
@PS theek thaak the, only mobile ka paper aadha outta course tha !
You're one big radio buff,no? :P
I've never been in love..except with my frnds and family! =)
but as they say, love is everything and so it cant be summed up....
there are no clear cut limits or boundaries which define it....
all i can say is that u know ur in love when u know everything about the person and still love him/her.....
when u find urself helpless and crying just to see him/her sad....
when u miss him/her soo much that it hurts and yet u want him/her to always keep smiling.....
when u want him/her to be happy even if it means ur not a part of their world....
thats when u know its love i guess....
but then again, this is one of the most difficult and confusing question in the universe...so lets leaqve it at that.....
i guess when one is in love, u just know it! :)
by the way, chk out my latest post...and yeps do contribute..im sure ul have a lot to share on this one....we all do :)
great points vandi :) lemme add a few
-> frequent calls just to make sure he is fine
-> saving every penny just to surprise him with gifts.
-> his fav songs as callertunes :P
i can go on :P
Is it available everywhere?
2. The person just left after meeting you and you are already missing him/her.
3. You smile for no reason.
4. You can do anything to make him/her happy and see a smile on his/her face.
5. You start understanding the unsaid/unspoken words.
hey, honestly i didn't get the radio buff... i am a music buff though :)
hmmm good point, everything seems incomplete i agree ...
never mind being late, i couldn't agree more with ur last point... it doesnt matter if ure the one makin them happy... as long as they are happy :)
the posts have been pending, ever since mum came and i was presented with the mammoth task of configuring one laptop with files and programs and cleaning up the other.
my new post will say it all, will visit u soon and surely contribute
hehehe u and ur chocolates ... lol
nice points... :)
never done the callertune bit though
hey welcome to my space, i see its ur first time here :)
But the book has got nuthing to do with the contents of my post... I just finished readin it, has been written by a fellow blogger
I guess its available in most places, I got it a local bookstand in Delhi
thanks for the visit :) and the addendum as well... good points!
I came here to check what all got added to your list. :-)
Hmmm... I can see some of my readers like Manasa & Kiran came here as well !! Good, that's the best part..
What do you say ? :D
Arrey yaar, pls enable name/url thing. :(
am compiling the list just now, will be up with updates at my end in just a while :)
Oh Manasa and Kiran came from ur place, thats really nice :)
and abt the name url thing, doin that right away, i tried last time too... lemme know if it helps
i just wrote to u abt the name thing... chk and lemme know