Complexities Vs Simplicities ... of the mind!

This one is just about how sometimes it gets so irritating being me. Last night after I figured out the enormous amount of work I had to do, I was wondering why I don’t ever have the time for stuff I really wanna do, rather than stuff I have to do. My morning which began way after noon was spent in looking at engagement rings with mum on amazon... so bhaiya could shortlist, something for Neha, but as fate had it we didn’t find her size in the only ring everyone liked…later when Bonnie had gone out for dinner and I was supposed to be working, he called again and I had another hour long discussion over the stone, size, color, cut, shape, clarity…everything abt her ring!!! Ok fast forward to me realizing that I needed to have read the first three chapters of my very big DBMS book in order to do the assignments I needed to submit. :O time toh tha nahi, and maine kuch bhi socha ho, the night had separate plans…. Just when I was finally settling with my books and starting work BSES decided i...

Right u read it correctly, I am contradicting the famous quote “Nobody is perfect.”, but then I have my reasons. You see I was watching this movie on HBO : The Perfect Man, and all this while I was thinking who exactly can be called a ‘perfect man’. How do you define something that complicated especially when you’re not even sure whether it exists? The movie was nearing its end when Tanuj called and here’s the part of the convo that led to this post: Me: Hello Tanuj: Hey Vandita :) {He always greets with a smile, u know over the phone too} Me: Heyy! Tanuj: kya kar rahi hai? Me: Oh I was watching HBO. Tanuj: whats on it? Me: The Perfect Man Tanuj: who’s the perfect man? Me: It’s the name of the movie. Tanuj: Who’s the perfect man? pause Me: Ummm everyone is… Tanuj: How can everyone be perfect? Me: for someone! {there I had said it, my reason for contradiction} Tanuj: Who’s the perfect man for u? Me: I don’t know. Tanuj: I thought u knew! I read somewhere that everyone has at least 6 or ...

Okay so I'm late but since CM-Chap invited anyone who read to do this tag, I thought I'd take it up. Here come ny answers... 1. Pick out a scar you have, and explain how you got it? Scar?? :-? Actually i do have a lil burn someplace i dont wanna tell u ppl... but the point is i don't really remember how i got it, I think it must have been one of those accidents with the iron when i was a lil kid. 2. What does your phone look like? Umm its looks pretty much like a normal Sony Ericsson W700i in Titanium Gold...but my fav part of my phone is the mobile hanging... its Gini now. U can have a look at it in my post Giggles Galore :) 3. What is on the walls of your bedroom? Okay we'll go in order...on the wall right in front of me is a painting of a colorful flower arrangement {painted by my maasi i guess} and right below it is a hanging mirror. The wall on my right has a nib painting of two birds on a branch {made by yours truly :)}, next to it is the huge collage i made with...

Today is realization day 2. I’ve realized that I do no good by kidding myself by praying for things to happen; things don’t happen…we make them happen! You know when u begin to tell yourself that no matter how many times you fall you will get somewhere… what you’re actually telling yourself is this : “I’m gonna walk a bit at whatever speed I want, who cares I will get somewhere and I will then learn to like the ‘somewhere’ as my ‘place’.” What’s really wrong with that statement is the fact that ‘hello! everyone, every god damn person gets somewhere’…I’ve not got to make the ‘somewhere’ as ‘my place’, that’s not OK…I’ve got to get to ‘my place’ and settle for nowhere else!!! Hopin my realisations work for me and I can begin to be strict about dictating about my own life’s path. Peace within.

Nahi bhaee mere mom dad ki anniversary nahi hai….. and meri anniversary bhi bilkul nahi hai… u see I’m still single :P Today infact happens to be the anniversary of a very special day in my life, its special for loads of crazy reasons and I was crazily happy that day. Flashback to 8th August 2006 Woke up to great music in the morning, those days my alarm used to be scheduled at 8 each morning, and I would tune in to 102.6 Take Off and Time Out from 8 to 9am everyday…my cab came at around 9:05am. I dunno what was special but I had a smile stuck to my face the entire time. As if good music in the morning wasn’t enough I got to listen to lovely music in the cab too on the way to college…but then din itna simple bhi nahi tha. Dwarka mein our cab broke down and we had to get down start walking in order to find some bus or something. We were 9 people…Ankuj, Swati, Swati C, Deepali, Neha A, Mansi, Shalein Sir, Rajat and Me. Imagine all of us walking on the road and that’s when we passed these...

No no incase ure thinkin I'm gonna bore you by talkin abt my subject classes, uve gotten it absolutely wrong. Today we had the best JAVA class ever.... Check this out, Mr Ram Paul Singh {he reads it as Ram " Pal " Singh himself =))... teacher ka kam, chowkidaar ka naam zyaada lagta hai :P} was tryin hard to control a class of some 60 odd students {like us ;) } and was failing miserably at it. A sinser {sincere} few, occupying the first two rows were religiously noting down everything RPS was saying {read uttering more to himself than to the class} and funnily so, those partycular students were the only ones who could hear him :P Since I couldn't have missed out such an awesome opportunity on grabbing some great blogging material.... heres what my notebook looked like: 7/08/07 JAVA (Th) ----> Futures of Java {This is exactly what he had said and believe me if he hadn't written "Features of Java" on the board none of us would have known what we were ...

Okay was in bed early today...dunno what happened i got up to switch on the light and picked up my pencil to write the following... Maybe you'll never look into my eyes and say what i so badly want to hear Maybe we won't be so close yet another year after year Maybe things would change and we would be more far than near But... and then i strangely blanked out!!! {This was 10 minutes ago} Can someone try and complete this.. ?

As I type out this post I have a mixed bag of thoughts swirling around in my head and I’m gonna be addressing a few of them here. My 4th sem results are due to drop like a bombshell on us any damn day and I have a feeling that that day in all likelihood is today , I can’t even begin to describe the pit in my stomach which has got nuthin to do with the fact that I haven’t eaten anything since morning… As its common knowledge that my brother is getting married in October and there is loads to be done, I’m having quite a lot of fun goin shoppin with mum and planning every bit of the days that my frnds are gonna be here…. Yes I’m super excited coz my darling buddies are gonna be here in Delhi and I’m gonna be meetin all of em together for the very first time in my life {Tan, bacche u’re gonna be missed a lot…. Plz find out if u can even manage one day} Even though I am super excited, I’m also very nervous abt just the idea of meetin all my frnds for the first time myself but on top of that...