More Questions ?!?
This post was written on the 13th of December…am just publishin it now. Might not be absolutely relevant right now...but just read on.
I’m supposedly the ‘epitome of expression’! I dunno if its words finding me or me finding words but I do happen to string em together to say exactly what I feel most often than not.
The question here now is……is it such a good thing after all?
I mean yeah right, I say stuff I want to, I don’t hide feelings/thoughts but isn’t that supposed to be reciprocated some time or the other?
Maybe I’ve never met someone as expressive as me, but when I really wanna feel like someone considered me worthy enough to share their ‘life’ with them…I don’t get that opportunity quite often, of coz not as much as I give it out.
Am I being unreasonable by wanting to be surprised for once?
I hope things mend themselves soon…there’s loadsa stuff driving me nuts anyways!
I’m supposedly the ‘epitome of expression’! I dunno if its words finding me or me finding words but I do happen to string em together to say exactly what I feel most often than not.
The question here now is……is it such a good thing after all?
I mean yeah right, I say stuff I want to, I don’t hide feelings/thoughts but isn’t that supposed to be reciprocated some time or the other?
Maybe I’ve never met someone as expressive as me, but when I really wanna feel like someone considered me worthy enough to share their ‘life’ with them…I don’t get that opportunity quite often, of coz not as much as I give it out.
Am I being unreasonable by wanting to be surprised for once?
I hope things mend themselves soon…there’s loadsa stuff driving me nuts anyways!
Comments
Without going too deep, all i would like to say is...you're not alone buddy...even me too feels the same way sometimes during my corporate fast life..
Sometimes u wanna say so much, express so much..but thr is no one to respond - or lets put this way - respond with equal passion to you..
You would find your soul mate one day sooner or later..have faith in HIM (God)
Take care :)
but then the point again here is "expecting"..well its human nature to do that..aint it..and there's ntn much u can do abt it..
so stop worrying..relax..n let things take their own course..it ll require some patience..but im sure u can manage that :)..everythng will fall in its own place..
cheers!!
all i can say is thanks
u take care too :)
@maverick
maybe ya i am 'expecting' but why do we never stop that ...
anyways abt being patient, now that u think i can manage i'll sure give it a shot
thanks
okay so then im just human! ...
thats consolation ! lol
life is all abt questions, answers, analysis and lessons...
everyone cant be that xpressive, so rather on waitin for wrds, count on the expressions in eyes...those are more assuring...
when hez got so much to say..n whereas I want so many thngs 2b expressd n spoken out but the main point like that this thng does not
transcends only to him but all others its just for some (like us) if v dnt see pple arnd us respond as v do v feel no fit there but thatz not true...n ur nt being unreasonable at all...but again whn the time wil come when the respondant cannot restrict ne further n speak out..n dnt keep much too much of those stuffs hovering about...u only tell me not to take tension ab dekh.. :P i agree wid D sinner here...v need to answer question anlayse & learn lessons... so chillax sweets..
I hope i was clear :P
and as for wanting to be surprised... yeah that's a reasonable expectation... but expectations dont always happen... the key is not to feel let down...
It is seldom that you meet someone who will express feelings and thoughts the same way as you do but then if this person is meant to be in your life you will learn to read behind the lines and understand without words :)
i hav bin ur shoes time and again.. i am known to be expressive too.. but wat i learnt the hard way is that there are not many souls like us and its only a futile attempt if we set out to search for someone like that..
more often than not the ppl we seek are not like us and we do get disappointed that our exact same expressions are not mirrored in their eyes, words or deeds!
i just hope they mend soon too, for ur own sake.. :) cos i know it aint easy!
love ya,
akila
Its all abt the nature of the person sweets...some ppl r more expressive, some arent..theres nothing u can do abt it..or rather even that person cant do much abt it.
the key is not to have high expectations...trust me it prevents disappointment..
love ya!
okay i'll try eye talkin, maybe that'll make me a lil satisfied!
@zahid
never mind that buddy
and my exams got over yday ... so now thats exactly what i am : Free :P
anyways Merry Christmas to u too!
thank u for thinkin that im not being unreasonable and i know exactly what u mean abt not feelin fit ... bang on
waise ure right i do tell u to chill, im gonna tell myself that as well... and yes u were pretty clear :P
love
@rohit
Absolutely man...i know what you're sayin.
"It's not always possible to find out what's in the other persons heart."
thats just perfectly put...
and i am walkin past, thanks :)
yup we do, i'm still learnin to toggle well ...
hey great u agree its reasonable :)... and i know everyones been talkin abt not expecting too much... i workin on not being disappointed!
@lena
oh god the whole discussion part is not possible here...
but then i know these ppl are here to stay so i sure will learn to understand without words...
that did make a whole lotta sense :)
hah stating facts here... u are just so right.
i like it in a strange sorta way ... mental same pinch joy i guess :P
anyways i know things'll get better coz they ought to ...
love u too dear :)
@bonnie
i so knew u were gonna say that, even when i was writing this post (hadnt even thought of publishing) i was thinkin the same thing ki bonnie toh yehi bolegi... :P
"the key is not to have high expectations...trust me it prevents disappointment."
i know and ive told u so many times im a slow learner... kuch aur saal tere saath rehne ke baad shayad seekh jaaoon !
love u loadsss sweetie
i liked that thought... i smiled :)
and where exactly do i meet you??
i'd love to meet my thinkin twin if thats what u are! :D
lol ... its not just them sweets
but theek hai i'll consider usin initials next time round! :P
like they say...some ppl, though they love u enormously...just dont find the right words to express their love :)
ya like they say... maybe what they say is right after all ...
*smiles* @ "yummy post"